How do we? How to move on in life? After a great loss of a son. Or even any kind of loss, many tell us we just need to get over it. That is not the case when you are the one going through it. Have you noticed that the ones that tell you that, have not experienced a great loss in their lifetime. Cause if you did, you would not be saying that. You would have some compassion for what is happening with that person that is struggling.
It kind of does get better as days go on. I am trying to move on from the loss of my son. A loss I never ever thought I would ever have to go through. At least I thought I would be a lot older before it even had to happen. Cause it is life and people do die all the time. But it is different when it is your family member and one that is super close to.
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I Needed To Figure Out How To Go On With Life
I have others that rely on my for life, as I still have younger ones that still need me. My son just recently died of heart condition we never knew he had. Was a shock of course and it is still processing for me. I know he is gone and I will never chat with him anymore. Only when I silently speak to him, does it make me feel better when I do. We all have our own way of coping with our loss.
How I Get Through My Loss
I have my moments of course, just like everyone. I feel sad at times, so I stay in that moment only for a little bit of time. Say an hour is my longest. All I do is remember what I love about my son, or even my latest memory of him. I live in that moment of my loss, my pain and of course my anger. For him being gone. I still in the moment for a bit, and feel the pain. After I am all done, I will just breath and get up and let the feeling all go. A way of releasing it and trying to continue on with my life. This is what I was asked how to move on in life.
Especially after a great loss, we all have our own ways of doing it. But I really try to not stay in the sadness for too long. Cause you know what? You can get stuck there and stay there and dwell in your loss. This is when depression sinks in and you go down that hole of pain. You get sucked in and you kind of stay there. Cause we all do have self pity and feel like we could of done something. Or we should of know what was going on and we could of stopped it. We could of avoided it all and he would still be here.
Again, no matter what your loss. Whether it is a close family member or even a pet, cause they still are family. We have a loss somewhere, just a matter of trying to move on in life. To get your own life back on track and not go drown in your sorrow of pain. Of your loss you are experiencing.
Why Does It Hurt So Much
Why does it, cause you loved them so much. Your pain of not being able to speak to them again. See them again. Makes you think of all that you will miss now, even though you never gave it any thought. Because you knew they were always there, they were never going anywhere. But now, you realize it is too late and you can’t do anything about it. So you have a lot of loss attached to that person that has left. Probably cause you never got to say goodbye, or see you later.
This is when we go to a funeral, hoping it will make us feel better. A way of letting go and learn how to move on in life. Cause they would not want us stuck in missing them.
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