Love and connection is what women look for when they are dating. Thinking if this man is the one for her. Will, they hit it off or not. Will she need more than one date to decide. Most of the time, we hit it off and have some fun. Few dates in and you decide that he may not be the one.
Maybe your family doesn’t like him, or even your best friend feels that he is not the one for you. So what do you think you should do?? Go with your own instincts or go with what your family or best friend says. Sometimes it is good to go with your instinct. Then again, your best friend will see something that you just are not seeing.
Cause you are believing he is the one for you. But your best friend, may be right in their insight also. Depending on how much faith and trust you have in the best friend.
Depending On The Women Or Man
Have you noticed that a woman that just agrees with everything the guy says? Is the one that is a pushover, doesn’t stand her own ground. She is so in love with the guy and will do absolutely anything he says.
Some women like this, seem to find a guy that is abusive. Whether it be verbal or physical abuse. She seems to just bow down to anything and everything he says. Most of these couples last for a while, because they don’t see anything wrong. While others do, but they are so in love with each other. Then if this were the case, then it would be good to have listened to your best friend and what they had to say. They seen it and you didn’t.
The One The Family Doesn’t Like
Say a woman is the one that is dominant in the relationship and the guy is the one that will do anything she says. Then this is the one that the family just does not agree with you being with. But he is so in love with her, and will not agree with his family. She is not abusive or anything, but she is the one wearing the pants in the family. Sound familiar?
There are so many different dynamics of a relationship. As you are dating, you will understand about where you are in all of it.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking??
Will mostly depend on what you grew up with. How were your parents with each other?? How were aunts and uncles with each other. What is your family history in relationships??
I know mine was a bit off. I was young, and didn’t much notice it all. Till later in life did I understand what it all was.
My mom never married, but she had me with a married man. I don’t know if he was still in the marriage when I was conceived. I know later on that they lived together and I knew I had a half brother and sister on my dad’s side.
Later on my mom was with another man, they had a child. Which later on is my little sister. But again, the relationship as I remembered was an abusive one. On both counts, my father and my step dad. But she did do everything they said for her to do. She listened and obeyed. Still got abused in the end. But she still stayed, and said was because she loved him.
Lost my dad, so she didn’t leave him he passed away. Same with my step dad, he later died also. She eventually passed, cause she was heart broken when my step dad died. She felt alone and lost and felt she could never love again. So that is what makes me wonder how I will be in my relationships.
So is it all about the love or the connection. When you think of Love and Connection can you have both or just one.
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