Who’s strong enough to be in your circle. Now, that means who do you hold close to you. Who you know you can trust, be there for you. Who supports you. In anything that you are doing.
Give it some thought of who you have around you all the time. Or even ones that you pick up the phone and phone them. You have some exciting news, and you just need to tell someone. That is the person, you call, no hesitating or anything! They will drop all they are doing to chat with you, right then and there.
Being Their Person To Go To
Or even one, that you know you will be there for. If they call you and you drop everything, to chat with them. Because you are their person, and you know they need you to listen to them. For whatever reason. But it is important to them because they chose to phone you and no one else. So doesn’t that make you feel very special? To be their go-to person, in crisis, or just to talk.
I know I feel pretty special when someone takes the time, just to pick up the phone and call me/or text. But then again, we do live in that age. I like to just drop a quick text because I am currently busy at work. But I did take that time to drop a text. Since I don’t have the time to call them.
I don’t want to call, because I know I will get stuck in a lengthy conversation. For a text, takes me a couple of minutes. And a call may turn into a half-hour of my time, I will never get back. Cause I can take some time out later to give them a call. If I know that is what they want from me. I will take the time to make that call.
This is when I use my time management skills, which I am currently still tweaking too. Because we need to know what our whole day is like, from the moment we get up and when we go to bed.
We All Live In The Fast Lane
What does that mean?? We prefer to text than pick up a phone and call. We are emailing instead of writing a letter. Or even going to visit some people at their homes instead. Now we can Facetime for our conversation, so that we can see who we talk to. Which is another way to see people, just not going to their house to see them. We can see them over our cell phones or computers. Maybe you need to go for a walk, its your part in caring for yourself. And a walk is good for everyone, fresh air is good.
I know when I am busy working, I have my WhatsApp open and that’s how I chat with co-workers. I also get to Facetime with my grandbabies when they are gone. I love using that for our conversation, cause I get to see them and not just hear them.
Trusting Others With Your Computers
I know I don’t trust anyone to use my computer. Even my children don’t get to use my computers. Because when they do, it is always downloading music for their iPod, or cell phone. So I would prefer not to let them use it. I get stuck deleting multiple songs and files and videos because of this. The last one took me 4 hours to delete it all. From the past 2 years of downloads.
Now that is when I trusted them to do it. But they would download, get what they want. Leave my computer to me to clean it all up. Now I use my computer for working. So I need it to be up to speed. Having these songs and videos on there slowed my computer down alot.
So I had to take time out of my workday, just to clean it all up. Believe me, that is quite the process, if you know what you are doing. Now, my computer works great. Five hours later, after deleting files etc. Next day, I cleaned it all up. To finding and deleting the files permanently.
So yah, you need to know who you can trust to actually use your computer, and if you will even let them.
Who’s Strong Enough To Be In Your Circle?
- ones you trust
- family members
- childhood friends now your best friends.
- ones that will be there for you no matter what!
Just some ideas of the ones that may be in your circle. You may have many others. But I know for me, I keep my circle very small. I have just friends online, I chat with. Have some family, and no old childhood friends.
So as long as you know who your close friends are, or family members. Ones that are there for you, will be there for you at the drop of a hat. Those ones you can trust.
In order to keep doing what you do, and be able to trust someone to talk to – we need friends/family we can trust. We all need to talk at some time in our life. Even if it is chatting over the Internet, however you choose to chat.
We may not all expose anything in our lives that only us need to know. But I mean, just talking about how we feel, or even what we are doing in our day today. Or even just checking in with someone, and see how they are doing. Maybe they don’t want to reach out and talk, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t reach out to them.
Friends Reach Out To You
I have friends that reach out to me all the time. I don’t know what it is about me, but they just out of the blue. Text me and they want to chat. By telling me their life story of what is troubling them at the moment. Cause they were probably thinking who’s strong enough to be in my circle. Who can keep what I have to say to themselves?
My friends, need me to be a listening ear. Then, maybe give them advise, on what they should or maybe need to do. Because they just are stuck on not knowing how to get out of what they are dealing with. Sometimes, it may be a family issue, or a relationship issue. But they may just need an ear to listen, and to vent their frustration out.
So I am there for them, to help them to figure out what their next step is. Sometimes, just listening helps. Because then they hear themselves talking about their situation. Come to a solution themselves, or maybe ask if what they think is right. But most of the time, they just need to get it off their chest. By talking it out.
It is always good to be there for someone, just to listen to them and be their friend. Because you never know when you may need that favor returned to you at some time in your life. Then you will think about who’s strong enough to be in your circle. Especially when you will need them.
Who’s Strong Enough To Be In Your Circle?
When you have something you want to talk about, or even just a quick question. Knowing this person will be honest about it. That is the person you want to help you with whatever problem or question you have.
Because they will give you their honest opinion and let you know how they feel. Or think on how you should handle the issue or question.
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