I don’t know why I say I will shop for someone else? I know it totally stresses me right out. I am just heading to the store to do my shopping. Someone says can you get me this? I say sure, why? I guess may be habit. But I know I don’t like to do it anymore. Now I put my foot down and say no, just come to the store with me and get it yourself.
Then of course they don’t want to, but I don’t want to cave and just do it. Cause they get the easy part of all this. They get the item and did nothing for it, sat at home and just waited.
Why do I say I will shop for someone
Again, when I agree to get something for someone. They ask for this item and then the stress starts, mostly from the store not having the item they wanted.
Why I get stressed:
- they don’t say thank you when I bring them their item
- I bought the wrong one or wrong flavor and now their upset
- They wanted 2 and not just one
- I may end up forgetting to get it and need to go back to the store
- or it’s 5 items long and it’s all over the store
- I did not write it down on a list
- I forgot what I was looking for
I don’t think that I want to do any shopping for anyone else anymore. Unless it is something I have already purchased for them. An easy shop for them.
Same goes for Clothes shopping
- I choose the wrong color
- I pick the opposite clothes I like and get that. Because they don’t seem to like my choice of clothing
- Wrong style of clothes
- What was I thinking when I picked that out-is what I get from them.